The R-word

We work hard with our own hands. When we are cursed, we bless; when we are persecuted, we endure it; when we are slandered, we answer kindly. Up to this moment we have become the scum of the earth, the refuse of the world. I am not writing this to shame you, but to warn you, as my dear children. 1 Corinthians 4:12-14

I don't normally use this blog as a platform, but I feel it is time to step up and start voicing for those who cannot speak for themselves.

I'm speaking of a word that is used in every day casual conversation. A word that is tossed around so haphazardly that most people probably don't even realize they're saying it. But let's take a look at this word. Let's find out what is really means when you use this word.

Retarded: slow or limited in intellectual or emotional development or academic progress

That doesn't sound so bad. Why is it such a bad word? It's only meant to be a joke. "You're such a retard!" "Don't be so retarded!" "That is so retarded!"

There's a big reason why it is such a bad word. Because of the people that are represented in this category. Because of knowing that some day my daughter will come home from church or school and not understand why another child called her this word. Because of how callous and heartless people can be when it doesn't have anything to do with their child. But it has everything to do with somebody's child. There is somebody's son or daughter that is being affected by the use of this word every single day.

So here is my challenge to my four loyal readers out there: stop it! If you do use this word, whether intentionally or not, don't. Try to be mindful about what you're saying. If you know of others who do use this word, ask them to stop. Let them know that using this word is no longer okay. Tell them that you are not comfortable with them using this terminology. Stand up for those who cannot stand up for themselves! Let our voices be heard! All it takes is one.

Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Eph. 4:29